Guys: What’s with the “dick pics”? – a modest defense of cock shots

 

Yet again I read a post about someone’s disgust about getting a selfie with a dick (cleverly disguised by a transparent water bottle) in: cock-shot . I have yet to meet a woman either in RL or on social-media who really wants to see a guy’s dick as the first point of contact.

But wait – there are plenty of postings of guy’s profiles on Fetlife (for example, check out Jerry’s cock-shot on #FetLife http://bit.ly/2mWB24K )

Jerry’s profile has “Love this Pic” from many women! (guys too).

So why do guys post cock-shots?

The reasons vary – but many come down to “show your best assets”, especially on dating sites. If you’re someone who might want to hook up with say, Jerry, you might want to know how big his mastiff is. Size does matter! (please don’t ask me why).

On the other hand, if you want a relationship with, again, Big Jerry, you might want to strike up a conversation about a lot of other things. But if all you know about Jerry is his Mighty Tower all you could open with: “Hey, Jer, that’s a hot PA you have. Is it a 00? And how did you get those pearls in there?”

Now, do you see how awkward an introduction like that is?

If you’re really looking for more than a 1-night stand, it pays to be discreet about your package. Communicate with them about your interests, your background or other things about you that indicate your personality. S/he might get put off by your junk, but might get to like you anyway – because you have “other assets”.

BTW – most dating sites will censor explicit pics of genitals. But if you want to go all out, try Recon or the aforementioned Fetlife.

As for me, I don’t have standalone genital pics on any of my current profiles and I don’t send them to the ladies. Some pics of my junk are still circulating from some porn I was in but I can’t stop the promoters from making a buck, eh?

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which is more attractive, the bottle of JD or what’s behind it?

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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5 Responses to Guys: What’s with the “dick pics”? – a modest defense of cock shots

  1. Mitchy says:

    Oh how I hate these dick photos. I get them a lot on fb from random guys, like tons and tons, it’s just so annoying. It doesn’t turn me on, on the contrary, it makes me just want to throw up.

  2. I get them all the time! Mostly Twitter (and now I’m probably going to heaps me just for saying this out loud!!!) Mine are not scantily clad like those above, either. They’re hardcore out of focus, mind-boggling close ups that twist and distort out of shape and end up looking like a cross between an bald-headed alien and Big Foot — Not a pretty sight, I can tell you! LOL

    • dave94015 says:

      Sorry to hear that the internet “cat calls” are still going strong. Some social media & email programs have an image-blocker – but they usually filter all images. It should be available for all social media or at the browser. I think firefox has something like this.

      I get them in my Fetlife mail – but that’s Fetlife. Guys who seem to sincerely want to hook-up. Maybe we could start a “Cock block” campaign (like “No on 8”)? I’ll help.

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