Misunderstanding Fantasy

The best porn…Is the one the mind creates!

Femdom Ramblings from a submissive male

I had another realization today that makes me feel kind of dense for not seeing it before.  In the past year I’ve come across a lot of Dommes that are vocal about being anti-fantasy.  They post it on their profiles, their blogs, discussions, and the like.  I am personally a big proponent of the potential of fantasy so I felt rather lost as to why this is.

What I grasped is that there is a fundamental difference in how they perceive fantasy as to how I perceive fantasy.

My view of fantasy: envisioning something that isn’t occurring right now or recounting something that has already happened.

Their view of fantasy: Femdom porn videos and pictures.

I don’t watch porn.  I have seen a handful of videos and clips here and there but it is not something I am well-versed in.  I don’t even know what “stereotypical Femdom porn” looks like. …

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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