How women run dungeons differ from ones by gay males…And how women hold space.
To the uninitiated, say the word dungeon and images of dark, dank, cold misery immediately come to mind; I know this, because the word is heavy with historical connotation. I gave myself a stomach ache, I was so nervous before my first play party! Take a breath, I will do my best to shine a light on this infamous word and communicate my perception of “Woman Only Dungeon Space”. I will be speaking about this specific setting; the energy of mixed dungeon space and male only space offer their own unique environment. For obvious reasons, I have never been in a gay male dungeon and for the most part, I am not comfortable in a primarily heterosexual arena.
Mmmm, where do I begin? Hot. Sensual. Intense. Playful. Safe. Uplifting. These are the words that immediately jump into my mind. If you have never been to a “play party” or stepped…
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