If you love your dominant, strive to do it with all your being and make her desires yours!
Some conversations with a friend recently have made me realize that I really have a tendency to romanticize D/s dynamics, concepts, and ideals.
I think a lot of this is rooted in my psychological damage. I am firmly convinced that I have to earn every bit of love and affection I might ever receive. Perfection and excellence keep me “worthy” of being kept around. Only dedication and supreme effort all the time give me any kind of emotional security.
I will admit that writing this out makes those things look rather twisted. To be honest, those aren’t conscious realizations that I ever experience. Those are the result of analysis and the understanding I have come to about how I process my emotions.
I can openly admit that I am only truly happy when I love and I am loved. As such, when I am lucky enough to be in love…
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