how a #bdsm session, including a private one, is an artistic performance
Playing in public at clubs means that you are going to be watched. There are those who find this a distraction. I realised early on that I didn’t and remember an occasion, early on in my domming career when I was so absorbed in the scene that I didn’t notice that a dozen people had gathered round, in silence, to watch. It was only when I turned round to select another toy to hit my sub with that I saw them, totally absorbed in what I was doing. But I was more absorbed still and pleased that only my play partner existed fort me in that hour. That is as it should be. We play for each other and not to put on a show. Or do we?
I find that at the big public events, such as the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar or Cirque de Chaos play primarily is about…
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