how to calibrate #painPlay with your partner….and how to mix love with pain…to have a deeper relationship
Whether you call it punishment or funishment, it all comes down to inflicting a modicum of pain, and that’s generally not considered a nice thing to do. But in this world of consensual BDSM, it’s OK to be a sadist.
Can’t you see what I’m wanting?
He wants to submit to you. He’s asked you to spank him, flog him, tie him to the kitchen table and whip him, grab his balls and bring him to his knees. Your principles tell you it’s wrong to inflict pain on another, even worse when that person is restrained and vulnerable, unable to defend himself. It gets even more confusing when you find yourself getting turned on…
Hit me like a man
After a few early sessions involving light punishment, it was obvious he wasn’t getting all he wanted. He had this urge to have his limits tested and prove what he could…
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