can #bdsm be a distraction to what we really want…some affection?
Have you ever asked yourself why you are doing the things that you do and feeling the things that you feel?
Have you ever asked yourself why do you care? Why do you care what those people say or don’t say, do or don’t do?
Why are you changing? or why are you not changing?
Why do you need others’ validation or approval?
Sometimes all you need is someone who shows you some affections.
Sometimes all you need is someone who hugs you.
I don’t know what I am looking for anymore. Maybe participating in the BDSM world makes me forget where the real problem lies, where all the insecurities stem from. And where I want myself to be.