How We Hold Space in BDSM

How we hold space for others while in public #bdsm play…to share with them and beyond

Darkly Dezire

Earlier this week I read This Article  about holding space which inspired me to write about some recent experiences that really made me aware of how we hold space in our daily lives. I went to a Play Party a few weekends ago now, which gave me a profound understanding of how we hold space in BDSM as well.

When I first started in the Perth BDSM community in 2008, though I’d been flitting around the sub cultures here since I was a teen, I came in with young, undeveloped ideas about myself and my relationship. I have never pretended to be filled with confidence or knowledge and have enjoyed the self development that has come from my experiences in the last 8 years. I remember one of the first posts I made on an online forum was seeking advice for what it felt like doing public play. What it felt…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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