How manipulating your partner’s subspace can change funishment into punishment
So I recently reconnected with an ex (we’ll call him Beck) after he reached out, asking about my views on love. Since then, we’ve talked about a lot, but he did bring up an interesting point.
In a recent post, I made the comment that using pain to punish a masochist is never a good idea.
However, a few months ago, in my group on Fetlife, I made the comment that I will use pain with a masochistic sub, with great success.
And for someone who’s so into precision of language and all that, it’s a bit on the unclear side. So allow me to clear it up.
First of all, here’s what I wrote in the group discussion.
I’ve always had success using various forms of corporal punishment. Subs like my husband are easy. He doesn’t have a masochistic bone in his body, and hates pain. But even masochists I’ve…
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