My Take – Slave vs. Boyfriend

Should your partner be either a slave or a boyfriend?…why not both!

Mistress Valiant

Last week I reblogged a post about the difference between a slave and a boyfriend.  It has been on my mind since, and I have had a lot of feedback and questions about it as well.  For the first time in my 24 years in BDSM I am attempting to merge the two.  Here are my thoughts on the subject…

My first thought was that I desire a lot of the same characteristics in both a slave and a boyfriend.  These are the qualities I find attractive in men regardless of their role in my life, my must have list:

  • Intelligence – there is nothing sexier than a smart man, nothing! Throw in a little bit of smart ass to go along with that intelligence, and my knees get weak.  I need a challenge, a man that I can talk to, who can keep up with me and talk about different subjects, who has…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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