It’s difficult to come out of the closet…if you’re into kink!
Although I previously thought that kinkiness was something that could be easily compartmentalized, conveniently taken out when around close friends or other kinksters, these several months of living life as a conscious kinkster has shown me the lesser known struggles of being kinky. Especially because I’m someone who doesn’t easily let people get emotionally close, mundane situations become struggles.
For example, when my friends are discussing their crushes or ask me who I have a crush on, I laugh it off and reply with “no one,” regardless if I actually have a crush on someone. Because my attraction to people is entirely based on my kinks and I’m a college student, I almost exclusively fall for my professors. It’s not even the most attractive professors, the most socially acceptable ones to fall for. My attraction prioritizes personality (kindness, humor, etc.) much more than looks. In fact, I would say that after falling for…
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