How To Control a Sub – A Few Easy Tips and Tricks for the New Domme

things a domme can do to keep her sub interested…& craving her!

Mistress Valiant


  • Orgasm Control – You must take control of his orgasms! You can use a chastity device or not, completely up to you.  He cums when, where and how you say.  End of discussion.
  • Don’t feel guilty – I believe in power exchange.  Submission and surrender are given freely, not taken, so you have nothing to feel guilty about!
  • Make him crave you – Learn his most secret desires and fantasies, explore those dark corners of his mind. If you need help, see my documents page, use the checklist, questionnaires and quizzes to get him to open up. Tease him, torment him, keep him hard and turned on constantly!  
  • Foster trust and open and honest communication – It all starts with this! Talk about things, especially at the beginning.  Check in often about works and what doesn’t.  
  • Fantasies – Learn his, tell him yours or simply show him!  Again…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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