sometimes a sub has to communicate what they want to their partner to make the relationship work toward the satisfaction of both.
I’m not sure the exact conversation where I told him I was unsatisfied with sex for years but it happened. I told him that I wasn’t into the normal ways people get their berries razzed, I heard that on Grey’s Anatomy and I wanted to use it, and I told him when I was younger I had been in a very controlled Dom and Sub relationship and that was the happiest I’d ever been with a person. Jeep was very boring and he had sex the way I picture cave men. Grunting and pointing towards the bed and then a bunch of grunting there. It was terrible. I wanted more and I explained to Mr. Stark all the things I wanted. Poor babe, I thought I had broken him. I was desperately looking for his reset button when he said he’d try it. And we’ve never looked back.
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