Do we love someone because of who they are…or does the gender matter?
I mean, some people like labels. They need labels. Want them. And I don’t mean labels on clothes, because that’s a whole other thing.
I have a couple of friends who have changed the labels they identify with in the last couple of years and good on them. They’re happier now and I’m happy for them.
But me? I struggle to put a clear-cut label on my sexuality.
Yes, I am married to a woman.
Yes, I love her and I feel attracted to her.
But I am not attracted to women in general, just this one I fell in love with.
Like I told a now former friend after my wife and I got together and he was all ‘hahaha you like girls!!’ (at the time, he was very supportive and the first person we told about us), I don’t like girls, I am in love with
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