strong, independent women can play the sub role sometimes and not be a ‘doormat’. Kink for them is not abuse, something they enjoy at times
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
The main thing for me is that my husband isn’t drawn to the same kink that I am, though he is supportive in me finding it elsewhere. It’s just very difficult and can be disheartening at times as he withdraws when kink or BDSM is mentioned. When I have a need, I basically keep it out of our relationship and just have to be patient. Also, my D/s is over a longer distance. It isn’t easy, especially when I find submitting in person so much more fulfilling. Trying to figure out what works best when not together is ongoing.
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