#30DaysofKink – Days 16 and 17

strong, independent women can play the sub role sometimes and not be a ‘doormat’. Kink for them is not abuse, something they enjoy at times

Krystalla: The musings of a poly-submissive girl

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

The main thing for me is that my husband isn’t drawn to the same kink that I am, though he is supportive in me finding it elsewhere.  It’s just very difficult and can be disheartening at times as he withdraws when kink or BDSM is mentioned. When I have a need, I basically keep it out of our relationship and just have to be patient.  Also, my D/s is over a longer distance. It isn’t easy, especially when I find submitting in person so much more fulfilling.  Trying to figure out what works best when not together is ongoing.

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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