Use Your Safe Words

some thoughts on why one should have & use #safewords


I had briefly used the term “safe word” in my last blog Sexual Role Play but, I didn’t really touch on the importance of using a safe word. A safe word can be any word, although it should be random and not related to the type of sexual act that is being engaged. For example, “pineapple” would be a good safe word. The safe word(s) chosen should be  random and easy to remember. Safe words are used to signal to a partner that you are too far out of your comfort zone and to stop. In some cases, there may be two safe words one to signal your partner to stop altogether and another to signal that you are uncomfortable so proceed slowly.  Utilizing safe words gives a level of protection as one explores his/her sexuality when something is too much to bear, by giving a clear message to slow down or…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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