Task for Sir – Days 13, 14, & 15 – General thoughts about kink and bdsm

This post has some reflections on kink/bdsm…and some activites the author wants to try

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Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Honestly, I think I could live without kink/BDSM. In fact, lately, I have been thinking that I could live without sex. But what I can’t live without is the connection that both these things give me. When done with someone that I care deeply about, the connection that I feel in the moments of kink/BDSM and sex are unchartered. Giving myself up in that way to another is a leap of faith and trust that isn’t easy for me to do.

When it comes to kink and BDSM, giving control of me to my Sir, and even in those rare moments where he takes it, my poly hubby.

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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