it’s hard to imaging a #slave in the #bdsm sense NOT being a submissive but here is at least one example.
An interesting post by MsScarletUK points out:
So a slave may or may not be a sub. A sub may or may not be in a relationship as a slave
Her post shed some light on my relationship with Maggie.
I wondered why Maggie didn’t care if I subbed to her. There are times when she does some of the chores. Of course, she’ll say “I like to have it done my way,” or “I can do it better”, etc. but on the whole, we have a vanilla relationship when it comes to the mundane things. Scarlet also wrote:
someone cannot be a slave if they are not in a relationship
our relationship started when Maggie said:
“I want you to be my sex-slave” to which I agreed. By this she means that she plans and directs our sexual activity. Slavery is the basis of our relationship at least with the intimacy and sex.
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