Is it possible that a #TPE (total power exchange) would NOT work if there were a framework & groundrules? This post suggests that TPE is complete submission w/o rules.
I’m a kinky, masochistic, high sex drive submissive (probably not a complete surprise I know). There are all sorts of stuff I want my Queen to do to and with me and She knows this. Why then, can’t I ask or expect her to do some of these things to me?
For U/us the answer is simple and obvious. I’m Her submissive and She’s my Dominant. When W/we first discussed being in a 24/7 total power exchange with my Queen as my Dominant, W/we tried a dynamic which was based on both of U/us having O/our wants met D/s-wise, which seemed like a good way to do it. It didn’t work.
When W/we tried again – because W/we both wanted this – my Queen told me that W/we would do things Her way or not at all. There was no contract, there was no listing of Her responsibilities or rules…
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