How a newcomer might perceive a scene with hard players…scary…unless we welcome them and reassure them it’s consensual play
I was at an event last weekend, where I had the immense pleasure to do some heavy impact with with two fantastic people who were willing to bottom for me. It was an amazing night: incredibly cathartic, fantastic energy, a beautiful transition from socializing to playing throughout the evening. There was also a really amazing mix of experience levels represented, a good balance of skilled players and first-event newcomers.
I had the fantastic fortune to speak to many (if not all) of the first-event folks between scenes, and several again after I was done playing for the night. At different points throughout the night, I heard some variation of, “Wow… that scene you did was so hot! I can’t imagine doing anything like that, but…whew.”
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