A call to bring fun back to sex…why portray it so seriously?
I grew up with Carry on films as a staple of sunday afternoon TV. Bawdy was the word used to describe them, today we might use a whole host of other words, like sexist, homophobic, transphobic. One thing that did stand out though was that sex was meant to be fun!
I wonder when we became so po faced about sex? Its not as if we are not bombarded with sexual imagery, with tips on how to be better, faster, more orgasmic (although frankly that might be dangerous in my case!) A good sex life is seen as a part of a good life (with the usual asexual erasure). Even the Telegraph has sex tips, and they go beyond dont let the vicar catch you buggering the footman.
We discuss consent, endlessly, and posts get shared about how if only men had vaginas they would be good in bed. (Yes…
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