Sex Work is…work


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I love to be sexually dominated by another man…‘traditional sex’,[with women] …stopped working for me  #sexWork Male Sex Workers Reveal The Truth About Their Lives And Clients


when it comes to sex – everyone prefers different things, & working out what to do & when is vital. Fluidity is key Life as a male sex worker


They hang out at the bar when I work the night shift, usually waiting for calls from clients.

“I hate it when gay guys criticize me for selling it ‘on the street'” Jim, an early 20’s college-looking-type sex worker said, “For one thing I don’t work the street or troll the bars for clients anymore – they text me when they want my services. I ‘ll go to the back room of the bar with guys that I like for free. I appreciate it if they want to buy me a drink.”

“I see some of my former clients for free,” Al, a mid-20’s guy said, “if they come to me when I’m ready. But if they call and expect me to come to their place at 2 AM, there’s a charge for that”.

“What keeps you going?” I asked them.

“There are guys who want discrete sex  and money is no problem for them,” Jim said.

“And we give them a professional service they’re not likely to get from a ‘date'”, Al said.

“Do you think you guys would leave the business if you had a good paying job?” I asked.

“Hell no,” Al said.

“Job? ” Jim said, “there are no jobs that pay me like this here .”

“But,” I pointed out, “don’t most clients prefer younger guys?”

“Yeah,” Al said, “I noticed the number of calls drop off this winter”

“So,” I asked them, “what’re you going to do when you age out of it?”

“I’m studying to be a sex-therapist,” Jim said.

“I’m going into bdsm,” Al said, “there’s a high demand for that from older guys.”



We are whores which for you automatically means we are victims of an economic system that merchandises all of us  Thierry Schaffauser






About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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