Is it better to want a #bdsm lifestyle than to live it? And what about acceptance of our life situation?
Acceptance is such a volatile perception for me. As i strive for acceptance, getting it creates a sadness of sorts.
Sir and i had a conversation recently where we were discussing “that happy place” of being in a 24/7 physical relationship. It was a day when i had been cooking and baking. i informed Sir that He could never be with me full time because of my cooking. i love carbs and cheese. The diet i follow is almost the opposite of what Sir has or should have. Although i am on restricted calories, i can generally have almost any type of food in moderation. Sir is restricted on carbs and sugars, at least He should be. And it’s almost a relationship ender, but Sir doesn’t like cheese!!!! Seriously?!? (sigh….)
i have started cooking at home more often and making foods from scratch (cooking and baking are also…
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