sometimes switching roles in a #bdsm relationship has benefits…to bring participants closer…but also to convince them that some roles are not for them. Here’s an example…
Kazander has the worst luck when it comes to being sick. In the six years I’ve known him, he’s been sick on his birthday all but maybe twice.
This year was no exception. A minor cold on his birthday has now devolved into a pretty nasty virus that has him making some very un-sexy noises.
So I took his alcohol away and have been shoving water down his throat to try and keep him hydrated.
But something else happened this year.
As I’ve said before, we always switch for his birthday. And, because his birthday is a few days before Christmas, and we have family in town, and he has end-of-quarter hours at work, we’ve taken to switching from his birthday to the end of the year.
It’s always uncomfortable, blah blah blah, the same story every time we switch. I’ve never liked doing it. It’s difficult to explain how…
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