One of the benefits of #polyamory is rekindling relationship magic…but the downside is that some will not accept changes to the relationship
This post by Poly in VT got me thinking about magic, specifically relationship magic, and what it is about polyamory that is magical and works for me.
I think that most people (including monogamists) would agree that discovering a new friend is often an exciting, invigorating, and often magical experience. I’ve definitely had NRE with friends that was completely non-sexual and non-romantic. I’ve referred to that time in the beginning as “falling in friend-love” but now I’m going to straight out call it “falling in love” without qualifiers, because it doesn’t need them.
The important thing is that meeting someone new and amazing can do wonders for a person’s life. And sometimes can cause havoc and/or the dissolution of other relationships. First I want to talk about the wonderful things that can happen, then the “negative” (and we’ll get to why I put that in quotes downstream), and…
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