Here is a graphic account from a prodomme of a guy going for a punishment session and why he does it
He said he wanted to be punished. He wanted it to be relentless and severe. He wanted his ass to be red, sore, and marked. He wanted neither agency nor mercy. He wanted to be free to scream and beg for the punishment to end, knowing that it would continue until I decided he’d had enough.
I explained my position: I am unwilling to hurt anyone against their will, therefore he would be assigned a safe word. He was free to use his safe word; he was equally free to decide not to use it. Furthermore while I was fine with hurting him with his consent, I would not risk actually harming him. Therefore I reserved the right to use my own judgment to end his punishment, in the absence of his safe word.
He said he understood. I told him to strip and mount the spanking bench.
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