has your budding relationship been ghosted? why do online interests disappear? and then the “reconnect”…what is that all about?
Have you ever been ghosted? I like this term, it’s used to describe the scenario where a newish, usually online connection just…disappears, fading away. It could be that you haven’t met yet, or it happens after a first meeting or even later. It’s rude and cowardly in my opinion. Adults should be able to have possibly difficult conversations and be able to articulate the basics of “I’m just not that into you”. So please, just tell me.
Now the flip side of ghosting is the reconnect. I have recently been contacted by two former lovers who ghosted me in the past. There are no bad feelings or anger on my side at all and I would absolutely consider resuming a FWB status with either or both of them. The funny thing is they are not asking me for that. Each of them has reached out probably three times in the…
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