The Spanked or the Spanker?

this post shows how a dom acts differently with men & woman


Ok this post isn’t necessarily about spanking…its about Dom’s and sub’s and what makes a person one or the other and why…so let’s dive in…
A Dom/Domme(female) is a person whom receives pleasure from being the dominant figure in a relationship whether it be in the bedroom, out of it, or both. A Sub is a person who takes pleasure in obeying their Dom. A safe and healthy Dom/Sub relationship is built on trust. Mutual caring. contrary to popular belief all Dom’s are not belt wielding maniacs who get off on beating their submissive. A Doms pleasure derives from control. They appreciate their demands being met, their rules followed, and usually for their submissive to be happy and willing to carry out these acts. And if a Doms rules are disobeyed, who ever didn’t enjoy a little punishing? But this doesn’t mean that all Doms are sadomasochists. And with that explanation…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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