an insight into the difference between fantasy and reality…and how to turn a fantasy into relity
I have the great pleasure of talking to lots of people about their fantasies. Some of this comes from working on my next book and interviewing people about things like rape fantasies and race play. Most of the time it is people who are familiar with my work talking to me about their personal fantasies. I always consider it an honor to talk to people about what they fantasize about.
Recently, I have been thinking a lot about how fantasy shapes our sexuality. As a corollary, how the reality of sex interacts with our fantasies to shape our self image, desire and satisfaction. What I want to focus on in this post is when fantasy and reality collide.
Fantasies Are the Primary Sex Act for All of Us
Fantasy occupies a larger part of or sexuality than most people realize. If you think about all…
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