#pain-play as a bonding experience differs from correction as explained here
Recently I was having a chat about pain, punishments, and how I am unique because I believe in using pain as a punishment only rarely plus how I always say correction, not punish. So I thought I would express my thoughts on what could be a sore subject.
I do enjoy inflicting pain. I guess you could say I have a latent sadist in me but what I think makes my ‘pain play’ side a bit different is, I don’t hurt just to take self gratification. I believe that pain play serves to deepen the bond between my girl and myself. The sharing of the giving/taking of pain deepens our connection plus it can be as intimate as making love. In addition, pain is one of the tools in my ‘Daddy Toolbox’ for those times when my girl’s mind is racing a millions miles a minute and needs to be…
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