This post is about how they set out to fulfill fantasies of a friends-with-benefits, group-only sort of way but eventually wanted a one-on-one and a group connection with love and romance. Can you hurry love?
Two years ago at this time Husband and I were just starting to communicate with a new couple. We were recovering from a brutal and blindsiding break up of a poly-esque friendship, and I returned to the online sites with a new determination. I was looking for something and was guided by a sense, but it was so vague and faraway that I could only articulate an intent to go looking. I was browsing in the same way that I shop for clothing or shoes. I don’t know what I want exactly, but I’ll know it when I see it.
What I ended up encountering was my own projection of what I didn’t quite know. We met an attractive, personable couple. We clicked quickly, had good conversations and enjoyable hook ups. Then, after a few meetups, things started to get messy quickly. I started to grapple with longing. This was so…
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