I want to get married. Am I brainwashed?

Thoughts of why a poly person might want to get married


Couple holding hands

J and me will have been together ten years in April. I’m 32 and he’s 30 in less than two months. We’re at that age where everyone around us seems to be getting engaged and married. My social media feeds regularly light up with photos of rings, bridesmaids and happy couples tying the knot. And yes, we always get the question, “So when are you guys getting married?”

For me, it’s a constant back and forth argument with myself. Part of me wants to get married, to have that big day, essentially a big party with my closest family and friends all there to celebrate J and me and what we’ve accomplished and what we’ve yet to achieve. I do want that. I want it very badly. I see people getting engaged and then married who haven’t been together half as long as we have or who I know aren’t as close…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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One Response to I want to get married. Am I brainwashed?

  1. Hey! Thanks for sharing my post. Glad you liked it. 🙂

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